As a matchmaker, your goal is to help people find real love – a lasting relationship that’s fulfilling. But what happens after? Often, once we help people find that perfect match, we don’t always know the best ways to coach them through the beginning stages or how to approach road blocks that come with every relationship. And, even more often, clients may need a little sprucing before they hit the dating scene.
Right now, you may currently offer some sort of coaching for your clients. But there is a major problem within the industry and it’s that we naturally give advice based on our experience with other clients, our own past situations – no matter how objective we try to be.
It’s really important and irresponsible to coach clients and not understand the full picture. Thing is, there’s an actual studied science to dating and successful relationships. And if you learn it, you might be on your way to your best year yet.
The Science of Love
As you know, more and more, matchmaking doesn’t work without the right coaching. When you realize that there is specific science and data, it actually becomes easier to help your clients.You no longer have to rely on past experiences or your own personal opinions. You can use the science to help establish the best course of action. Learning these tools will give you the confidence that what you’re telling your clients is on point. Plus, this makes you a better matchmaker because you are better equipped to help clients find their perfect match.
As a matchmaker, you want to make sure your clients are ready to attract their perfect match. And you also want to make sure that they have everything they need to manage the relationship. This is why it’s important to, not only, have a keen eye for the best matches but also know the tools and strategies to help your clients uncover their best self (and lead with it!).
Dr. Terri Orbuch, world-renowned relationship expert, author, and therapist has devoted her life to this exact kind of research. She is the director of a landmark study, where she has been following the same couples for almost 3 decades. Dr. Orbuch is widely published in scientific journals and the author of “5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage From Good to Great.” and “Finding Love Again: 6 Simple Steps to a New and Happy Relationship.”
Her study has helped her document and provide tremendous insight into the ingredients for a healthy relationship and the often overlooked habits that are the key to success.
Things like identifying personal triggers and understanding what may be holding you back from providing the best service to your clients.
Learn From The Best
Here at The Matchmaking Institute, we want to make it simple to incorporate these insights into your business. That’s why Dr. Orbuch will be teaching an exclusive class for our students.
In this Science-Based Coaching Certification course, students will have the opportunity to discover the science-based research that’s been proven to help singles find and keep love. With a step-by-step guide to becoming a certified dating coach, you’ll have the unique opportunity to learn from America’s most trusted relationship expert.
Things like being able to easily recognize patterns/habits. You’ll know immediately the lessons clients need to learn about past relationships so they can finally move on with a clean slate, while addressing their self-sabotaging beliefs and attitudes.
You’ll also uncover the top 15 qualities for clients that will clearly identify their key life values (and why!) so they know exactly what they need in a partner going forward using the 6 Secrets to Happy Relationships, along with resources and scientific articles.
This will help you instruct your clients how to conflict effectively, communicate clearly, and deal with common relationship strains/stressors, completely supported by science based research. This training provides the foundational structure and skills needed to successfully work with singles.
Dr. Orbuch will show you the exact steps to dig deeper into their client’s’ relationship habits and personalities so more singles can create marriages and relationships that are fulfilling and lasting.
Your Best Year Yet
This year, you have the unique opportunity to connect on a deeper level with your clients helping them understand their patterns, what’s been holding them back, addressing self-sabotaging attitudes, and the insights and effective dating skills they need in order to find their perfect match.
You can learn more about the Science Based Certification here.
Focus on learning the must have ways to help clients focus on their work values, life purpose, vision, relationship requirements, and self-awareness.
This kind of comprehensive approach will only increase your matching success helping to further establish your reputation as a go-to in your industry who is committed to working with clients in a holistic and transformative way.